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I would talk myself to stay focus lets get a higher education, so i can better my life and to also be motivated to finish and not give up because if we pay now in school, we can play later in life with the career of our dreams and not to work at a fastfood restaurant

If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior and I already knew about college life and making a transition, I would have told myself to do athletic activities and get into any clubs that I qualified for. Now that I'm in college, I think if I would have got into school activities, I would have had scholarships from all schools and wouldn't have to pay for college at all. When I was a senior at PHHS(PerryHall Highschool), I was too focused on my schoolwork to think about anything else. Some other advice I would have gave myself is to take more classes. For example, I need speech in college and I could've just taken it my senior year in high school. All I was thinking about in high school was that I can finally grow up to do what I have always dreamed about and nobody can stop me. Now that I'm here, I just think if I could just go back to my senior year, I would make those changes and wouldn't have to do as much work as I'm doing now.

I would advice myself to keep working hard that one day all of my efforts big and small will make a difference. I would advice myself to take advantage of every single opportunity I had in high school to act as a contributing member, because I know that one day all of my hard work would have paid off. I was never a quiter. I have always loved to challenge myself, so I don't just think about it now, but I had thought about it then as well. I had thought about how what I did as a person and as a student then would make a difference and affect who I am as a person now. I knew in high school that I would have to work hard and do all I could if I wanted to assure myself of a better future. I know that I have no clue whatsoever about the outcome of my future. Life is funny and works in mysterious ways, but I do know that in order for it to go somewhere I need to begin somewhere. I begin with myself, and taking action.I can only do what I think I can.

Change nothing about yourself. You're going to make it just the way you are!

I would have to tell my younger self to try to deeper explore the diversity of career options available because I did not know what there was available then. I would have made wiser choices and done better in school if I were better informed. I would also recommend to travel more, go on more road trips with friends, and in general see more of the U.S. Doing this can give a better world view on life, give me more fond memories of my youth, and more great stories to tell. It also gives "her" a break, so school can be enjoyed and looked forward to instead of dreaded. I definitely would tell "her" to smile more, enjoy those around more, get outside and play more. Life is too short to not enjoy every minute I am given. I don't think I realized this when I was younger, and now I try to live every moment as my happiest. This helps drive me to achieve more, be more driven, do better in school and have gratitude for my classes, instructors, material I am learning, and family who encourages me and supports me.

“Everything happens for a reason, so go with the flow.” As a senior I changed my mind 20 times on what major I was going to pursue. I became frustrated because I didn’t have a strong desire to pursue anything. I decided to attend a community college to start general education requirements. Massage therapy was the only profession that sparked my interest. I planned to move to Florida with Chris, my husband, and go to massage school. He was sent to Virginia so I no longer could go. I finished my associate’s degree and I enrolled in a massage program close to home. By the time I finished, Chris moved back to Florida and I joined him with a career. We now live in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I found the occupational therapy program at Mount Mary College fits perfectly into my schedule. In the past, I’d get frustrated when plans changed. I’ve learned that being a flexible and positive person leads to a less stressful life. Everything ends up working out for the best. I am very glad I had obstacles put in front of me, because I feel as if I can now get through anything.

If I was able to give myself advice as a high school student, I would encourage myself to develop study habits, appreciate the free time, learn healthy ways to manage stress, and money management. In high school, I never studied, and I thought I never had to, until I went to college. I would encourage myself to enjoy the down time more while in high school, because it goes by faster than expected and allows it to be taken for granted. I would learn important stress management techniques, because when attending college, it’s hard to juggle everything at once. The most important advice I would give myself is to save more of the money that was spent, especially the graduation money. I would explain to myself the difference between needs and wants. I would engrain those concepts into myself so I could better manage finances, so I didn’t have to learn the hard way when in college. All valuable life lessons come when we’re least expecting them. Learning of these lessons prior to college would have saved a lot of sleepless nights, troublesome stress peaks, and serious reality checks. My high school self would appreciate this advice.

I woke up one morning, groggy and yawning. As I looked into the mirror, for what seemed like the first time, I was shocked at the 17-year-old self staring back at me. While initially taken aback, I knew I had a chance to make some changes that I knew would affect the rest of my life. It was 2004 again, but this time, I knew what I wanted. While past high school me was terrified of change and growing up, the current one knew that the future is inevitable and comes as quickly as the present. I would not be so hard on myself; let myself daydream more. I would let myself daydream about the life I wanted, which I know would be subject to change. I would tell myself that it’s okay to change, and necessary to be able to handle life challenges. I would take more chances at situations that may challenge or intimidate me, such as applying to a 4-year school directly out of high school. I would tell myself to stand up for what I want gracefully, using knowledge and tact to do so. I would tell myself to try with heart.

I would say, try more things. Do not go home every weekend and just work on new experiences, not the same old high school things you dwelled on at home. Join a sport because those teams are very close and seem to have alot of fun. Be nice to your RA, that will be you next year. Always have a roommate, it is better to go at it with a built-in friend. Keep your door open so you make other friends too.

I would tell myself....... To be smarter about the choice of school I would like to attend. The bigger universities are not always the best options. Stay home for a couple of more years save some money by going to a community college for pre-requisites so when the time comes to transfer you can afford to go to a private four year college where the education you will recieve will be far more advanced.