Spencer
Dear younger me,
First off, let me say that no matter what your so-called enlightened mind is telling you right now, do the following financially: don't quit your part-time job until you have another one that pays better lined up, search for scholarships relentlessly, and take Mom and Dad's advice on saving your money. Now, on to college itself. You are going to make amazing friends in college, but be careful, some of your "friends" will actually be terrible influences, don't listen to them. Next, you'll meet a girl, her name is Sara. ASK. HER. OUT! Not when you first meet her, but like a month or so in. If you don't, you'll regret it. Lastly, but most importantly, despite what everything is telling you right now, you are not going to be a lawyer, and it's OK. Not going to spoil it for you, but God's going to lead you in another direction, and even though you won't want to let law go, it'll all be worth it in the end, and you'll be more joyful than you knew to be possible
Best Wishes,
Future you
Katie
My advice to myself would be to enjoy every minute of high school. High school is such a special time in life. Your growing up, making big decisions, and finding out who you are. I would also have told myself to try harder to get higher grades. That also, is so important, especially in college. Keeping focus on certian goals you want to achieve will help you stay out of trouble and be more productive with your time. In college, being productive with your time is so essential. You want to have enough time to do your homework and study, but also be able to experience college. To meet new people and bond over things that you have in common. If we are dilligent with our studies, and kind to our peers, college would be something everyone would want to experience. Not everybody is able to attend college, and taking it for granted would be selfish. I would say enjoy every aspect of life, achieve your goals, and be the best you can be!
Richard
If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior I would give insight on what companies I should invest in. On a serious note, without a doubt I would advise myself to surrender my life to Jesus Christ. Besides the importance of becoming saved, it would prevent me from making many of the wrong life changing decisions that I have made. Listening to this advice I would have not had premarital sex and result in an unplanned pregnancy and instead, respected the sanctity of sex and marriage. I do not resent my handsome son and the beautiful relationship I have with his mother however, I would have like to have taken more appropriate Christian steps in building my family. Lastly, I would advise myself to listen to loved ones, teachers, and respected individuals when they give you advice because it will benefit your life and academic career.
Jessica
I would tell myself, remember to keep my eyes on the prize. You are earning a degree at the end of your college years. There are so many distractions that can cause you to go astray, but now is the time to consentrate on what is really important.That is learning as much as you can before it is your time to step out into the real world. Become more involved in your hall activities and serve more in the surrounding area of lynchburg. Studying is so vital and to start studying a few days before the test, it will actually help. Friends from home will be there when you get back, remember to keep you head up and learn to love all people. Dont set yourself up for failure by seculding yourself, make as many friends as you can. This is the time of your life, make it the best it can be.
Catherine
One thing I would tell myself is to not rush into decisions that will effect you in the long run. To not waste time thinking about what others have in their thoughts for you, and just go with your gut feeling. To focus on God and His plans, and be patient in the wait, and to not be driven by distractions. And once you find what you really want, to hold steadfast to them, and know that God will open doors. When it comes to your future, money is not a concern! It is more important to be passionate about something that you do! This can uncover a great develpoment for yourself and others--to understand that although money is a plus, passion and direction drives any kind of desire to influence, and with God's help, you will most certainly succeed in everything you set your mind to. That's the advice I would give my high school self.
Ashley
Ashley,
I know that high school isn't all that you thought it would be. A lot of friends have come and gone, and left you pretty much alone. The whole high school party scene just isn't you, and that's ok. You know why? Because you're better off without all that. There are more important things to focus on, even if you have to eat lunch alone again today.
You're already dreaming about college, and I can promise you that it WILL be all that you think it will be. The moment you step foot on that campus, you'll know it's where you've belonged all this time. You just had to be patient and wait for it. Making friends will be a breeze for you there, like it's never been before, but the workload might come as a surprise. It's ok to put people first sometimes, but you gotta keep up!
One piece of advice I do have for you regarding the transition to college: work as much as you can now to help pay for school as you go. Student loans are the bane of your future existence.
Karina
Do not stress. You are going to be OK. God will take care of everything. Work hard and trust in the Lord and everything will fall into place. College is going to be awesome and you are going to make so many lifelong friends. God has got you and he will come through. Hard work pays off, do not be lazy because God will only bless what you contribute. The only advice I can honestly give you is to trust in the Lord, pray, and work hard. As crazy as that sounds I promise that the only reason I have gotten through this semester is because I have trust that God will provide and He will.
Amber
Hello former self! The road ahead of you will be long, arduous and rewarding. There are many things I’d like to say to you but I’ve chosen a few things I trust to be the most significant. Before you decide to ask mother if you may take a year off to save and prepare for college, think again! Every high school graduate deserves to experience university life the right way. To me, the right way is fresh out of high school, young and terrified to death! When you get to college don’t be an outsider! Make sure to build friendships. The friendships you have in college will continue to procure profits throughout life. One more word of guidance; SAVE ALL OF YOUR REFUND MONEY. Yes, that new iPad mini looks awesome but do you really need it??? If you borrow loans (which most students do), save any money you have left over! It will come in handy for books, internships and any study abroad opportunities that may come available to you. I hope that your college experience will be even more of a blessing than mine was and wish you the best of luck!
Sincerely,
Amber
Angelia
I would tell myself to put everything that I have into my education. Study hard, and set a goal of success. Make sure that I get a good college education as a Special Education teacher, and be sure to help special needs children and adults alike to succeed in getting their education as well. There are ways to teach children who can't do for themselves to learn the same things that we learned in high school and beyond. They too can earn a good college education. I want to insure that they do just that.
William
If I could go back in time, the advice I would give to myself as a high school senior would be not to rush into college. I would say I know you are feeling a lot of pressure from friends and family concerning what college you want to attend and what major you should choose, but you don't really know that much about yourself. Take time to travel, pursue different jobs and find yourself in different scenarios, whether they are difficult, fun, adventurous, or monotonous. It is through these scenarios you will learn about yourself; what your stregnths are, where you are gifted, where you find natural ability. You will also learn where your weaknesses are. After you have taken time to do this, then you will learn what major you want to pursue and what will fit your personality and personal interests, and abilities, as well as giving you experiances and stories that will be shared and cherished for a life-time.