Emory & Henry College Top Questions

Look for help, while many students successfully find themselves attractive to businesses, organizations and academic intuitions by demonstrating their athletic abilities or academic abilities, there are many more that don’t have such abilities that can feel left out. You didn’t do poorly in school but you weren’t the top performer. There is an instant feeling that you are being left out as the cost of college looks prohibitive. This is when you can shine, by taking the initiative to do your research and find the guidance and help to get your foot in the college door. Once you’re in choose a major with the most subjects that you can excel in, the major may not be what you want in the long term, however by focusing on the subjects that you are strongest, you will not only be motivated to perform better, but you will start to cumulate an impressive GPA average that will open the doors to great funding opportunities that will enable you to accomplish your goals.

If I could go back to my senior year in high school. I would have told myself to focus on the reward which comes with hard work first. I would have told myself to study harder and play less. I would have told myself to use all the time I could to learn more words and crack down those hard math formulas I used to have in high school. I would have listen to my mother and kept it in mind when she told me to stay away from girls because they can throw your focus off. I would have told myself when you really want something its not given to you and if you want it you have to give it your all, you have to strive for it. Because its not just going to come to you, you have to work hard for it. An if I knew what I knew now I would have used that to help me build motivation and determination to make it through high school with better grades than what I did have.

The first thing I would tell myself as a high school senior would be to stay focused in school and take advantage of every opportunity available. Having a career goal and starting much earlier on classes for my major would have reduced overwhelming myself towards the end of my undergraduate studies and allow me to remain focused. Even though at the time high school may seem to be the end, I would tell myself that it is only just beginning. I would remind myself to think long term and ensure that I knew now is not the time to slack off; instead, it is the time I must work my hardest. I would tell myself that hard work now does indeed pay off later, especially when it comes to grades. In fact, they are more important now than ever, because they ultimately determine what job and graduate schools I could potentially be elligable for. I would also ecourage myself to study for more than just grades and to always have a desire to learn and absorb all that I can for my future and my career, because ultimately this is what will bring the most long term success.

"Alright, now don't panic. I am you from the future and I just want to give you some advice about going to college. First, don't freak about about everything. You will make life long friends, you will do well in classes, you will feel like part of the campus community. Second, don't worry about buying everything you need before you even get there. If you do this you will waste some money and you will have no where to put it in the dorm room, trust me there is barely enough room in freshman dorms for one person, much less two. Third and finally, when you get there enjoy every moment. This experience is once in a lifetime, so instead of worrying about what tomorrow will bring or what people think about you from yesterday, concentrate on the present and you will enjoy the experience all that much more. Oh, and one more thing, you will love attending college because you will see that it is one of the best experiences of your life. Good luck, even though I know you are going to be fine."

Brian, listen to me. That last semester when you wanted to tour again just to see campus one more time, do it, you loved Emory for a reason. Don’t be afraid to tell your freshman advisor you want to triple major, he is there to help and will be more than willing to help. Don’t wait until the middle of your first semester to sign up for clubs, do it at Get on Board Day. Have fun, you don’t want to forget the reasons why you came. Go camping with the outdoor club you won’t forget it. When you declare your three majors don’t be nervous, you can handle it. Your advisors know what to do and don’t be afraid to tell Tal that you love Public Policy and Community Service, he already knows. Push yourself in independent study for PPCS the mural comes out great. When you get that letter from the Bonner Scholars call mom don’t reread it five times, it is true. Don’t forget to pick up your tennis racket and practice your trombone more. Remember why you came, don't give up you will make it.

The advice I would give would have to be to buckle down and study hard. Also do not be afraid to try new things, experience makes you the person you are and could be. Grades are more important than you can ever realize so try hard at everything you do, it only lasts a semester anyway. Although grades and experience are great things,just relax and it will be a lot smoother of a ride.

The greatest advice I could give to my high school self is to remember who I am. It's so hard going to a new school and not knowing a soul, so you have to stick to who you are. Never be afraid of what you believe in and where you came from. Take this chance to broaden your heart and your mind. Always speak up in class, don't let yourself be intimidated. In the long run, professors are looking for students who put themselves out there, the ones who try to get the most they can out of their college experience. Never compromise who you are as a person and take this opportunity to grow into a confident, successful adult.

Up until my senior year, I was a very good kid. I always got my work done, school was a priority, and I was extremely family oriented. But my senior year, I started hanging out with a group of girls that weren't the best influence. I began to party and fought with my parents endlessly. Luckily I managed to figure myself out and realize that college was a priority before it was too late. And by some miracle, I managed to get into the college of my dreams. But along the way I missed out on a lot of things, including a great deal of scholarship opportunties, and caused my parents a lot of misery. Knowing what I know now, I would tell myself that partying only satisfies briefly, but an education gives one a lifetime of benefits. There is nothing more important to a young adult than their education. College and making a smooth transition into it should have been my number one concern. And investing my time into my education would exponentially pay off in the end.

I would have told myself to be more open during my first year. I went into college thinking that it was scary, and honestly I wasn't ready to leave home. My first semester was rough as far as classes went and also with not knowing anyone. I didn't really go out and try to meet people. The next semester was a bit different in the sense that I joined a sorority and met more people that drastically helped improve my freshman year. Overall, I would tell myself to be more open-minded, more willing to make friends, and more dedicated to putting a lot more time into school than I would have originally planned.

If I could go back and tell myself anything it would be not to give up on your dreams. I obtained my GED, and doing that just showed myself that I can do anything if I set my mind to it. I would also tell myself not to let petty comments define who I am. Someone is always going to have something to say and you need to jst brush it off. If someone says that you can do something, prove them wrong. I have proven my whole family wrong, and if I could go back and tell myself in high school that I would suceed and pass up everyone's expectations, I'm sure I would have been happier. Never let anyone define who you are, and go for your dreams no matter how big or small they will be, because once you accomplish one, the sky is the limit.