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Don't go into the military right out of high school....Get a college education first so you can further advance with rank when you enlist....I wish I could truly turn back the clock on my life.

Looking back from where I am in my life now, I would tell my high school self to never give up. No matter how rough your life may seem, there is always something better around the next corner. College and life on your own may seem impossible and sometimes it feels like the weight will crush you but these times, with all their struggles, will be the best times of your life. I would also tell myself to have more confidence. You will never know what you can truly become until you stop hiding behind your lack of self-esteem. That underneath is limitless in what you can accomplish. Have faith in yourself and never look back!

As a high school senior I was caught up between working full-time, playing and being an All-Region volleyball player, going to school, and trying to balance a social life. If I could go back in time, I would tell my 18 year old self to kiss my dad, hug my mom, and save money. I would tell myself to enjoy the simplicity of being home.a I have come to the conclusion that not everyone was raised my amazing parents like mine. When I was in high school my dad and I were constantly at each other’s throats arguing over this rule and that. Now, I appreciate him for teaching me to be an independent, hardworking young woman. My mom also made sure to teach me patience, which is something I am eternally grateful for. Money was so easy to come by in high school as I wasn’t paying for tuition, rent and food. If I could go back in time I would put myself on a budget and try to save as much as possible. Money would be a lot better to have now, than carelessly buying things I didn’t need in high school.

Don't be scared to have different interests. Have an open mind and work hard. It's also okay to change your mind for something you are passionate about. Even if you'll only be passionate about it for a week. Work hard and good things will come your way.

During my senior year in high school, I was dealing with something most seven-teen years olds don't usually deal with. I lost my mother in a car accident early in the year, and I was more than devistated. Not only did I loose my mom, but I also lost my home and became homeless. I was offered places to stay here and there so I was able to continue school and graduate. During school though, I had no desire for a future. If I were to go back in time, I'd tell myself to not give up, that this hard time will pass and my future is bright if I'd just look up and be happy to be alive. I'd tell myself to pick myself up and keep going. I'd let myself know that things will get better and to not give up just because I'm sad at this temperary moment. I'd tell my self that it will always hurt, but it will get easier so what I should do is work hard and make my life better now instead of later.

Don't wait so long to go to college. It's worth it to go as soon as possible. Also, don't ever slack on any assignement. Everything that you do will help you in the future. College is the best decision that you will make in your life, and you need to do well. Do all you can to get into college right after high school.

If I could go back and talk to myself as a high school senior I would tell myself to enjoy the time that I have with my friends from home, but branch out and make friends with everyone. The hardest transition I had to make when leaving high school and coming to college was seeing my social group dissolve. I had done everything in high school with the same group of people and since we all went to different schools, I had to start at square one in making friends again. It's been good for me to realize that everyone has potential to be a great friend when you give them a chance. I wish I would have reached out more to others in high school.

I would tell myself to never give up on yourself and always pursue your dreams. Remember to always have an opened mind and be willing to learn and take advice from others. Never be afraid to stand up for what is right. Reach out to everyone and let people know you are there to help and make their lives better. Always look for opportunities to serve and make the world a better place. Set goals for yourself that will help you grow and be a better person, and let nobody take you from those goals. If there is a will there is a way, be who you want to be. Make friends with everyone, because you could have a great impact on them and vice versa. Study and learn as much as you can. Learn how to read fast and comprehend what you read. Take a speed reading class. Make your grades and education a priority for your future. Think about the future and how your actions will affect what lies ahead of you. Allow others to reach out and help you, never deny help from someone else. Love everyone, even those who seem not to deserve it!

If I were to give one advice to my previous self, I would tell myself to be focused. Right now, I am having a difficult decision deciding what career path to take. If I were to tell myself to focus, I would hope that I would make a more concerted effort to discover the things that I love the most. I would often follow idle pursuits and not be super focused, but part of my goals for this year is to be more focused: to spend more time reading, writing, friendships, and pursuing business ideas, and spending less time on facebook, youtube, or other internet time-wasters.

College life is the best time I have ever had. I believe this time is the perfect time to progress and reach your goals. There should be not fear for going to college, if you do your best. I am sure you will succeed. It does not matter what your grades are, If you are doing your best, there is not reason to be dissapointed for your effort. Organized yourself. College helps you to prioritize activies. Remember after the duty is the pleasure. Put first what matter most such as Study and work after that you will have time to have fun and relax. College life is the critical point to form your professional personality, do your best and you will have good results.