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I would give myself advice on finanical stability. I would make sure I payoff my vechicle and save money. I would also study harder to know how education can be stressing and a hardship at times. I would also probably looked at colleges more closely so I can stay close to my family. I would also looked more closely at jobs to pay for my personal needs and housing. Also, I would have probably told myself to focus more on being a student then looking for a boyfriend because at times a partner can be distracting from school work and class. Basically, if I were to go back in time I would just spend most of the time preparing myself alot more to make sure I dont fail college or drop out. I would have also looked at things more closely like counseling for college or saving money for school or vechicle. But I can say that I dont regret where Im at now. And if I where given the actual chance I wouldnt do it. I love what I have now which is loving boyfriend of 5 years, a job, vechicle, place, and soon to be bachelors degree.

I would tell myself to talk to the counselors at school in my junior and senior year in order to gain a better prospective of what my dreams and career goals are. While I received a Presidential Scholarship, I did not end up using it as I had no idea what I wanted to do in my life. Given another chance, I would now use the scholarship to finish my general classes thus allowing myself more time to decide on a career. I would also tell myself not to give up on college though I may be promoted to supervisor and management positions quickly and easily as in the end it is not want I want to end up doing and as it is not my passion I will never be happy with the choice of leaving school for work. Lastly, I would tell myself had I stayed in college I would be in the profession I have dreamed of and am finally seeking, unfortunately I could already be doing it and not still be in school at the age of 34.

If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior and knowing what I know today I would tell myself that I need discipline. It is my first step that will affect the rest of my life. I need to discipline myself to make the right choices as to where to study, what is important as far as school is concerned and to make education my first priority. Discipline myself to make the decisions that will have a positive impact in my life. For the first year in college, I think it is important to befriend students who are new to the college atmosphere like myself and that are committed to their educational goals. Communicating with the instructors and being able to express my concerns can make the transition easier. I would tell myself not to give up, even when you think that everything is against you. It is easier to quit than to continue. When in doudt, I would tell myself to think about the future and how important a college education is for your future. A college education can open many doors. Your future depends on which door you open.

If I was talking to myself senior year of high school, I would say "Dear Nelly, do not worry about college life; chose a career, and do not change that choice until you finish your degree." "Do not listen to people and what they have to say about you and the choices that you make, you are a smart girl, so be confident in yourself." "Don't give up, forget where you came from and look ahead, there might be obsticles, but never give up on your education." "Apply for scholarships as much as you can and get involved in extracurricular activities." "Inform yourself as much as you can on the career you want to pursue, and on the schools that you want to go to." "Do not be decieved by persuasive people, that try to sell you an education, look at all your options and chose a place that will give you the most help and guidance." "Nelly, I know that you are scared, and don't really know what to expect of college but be positive, you'll make it, you are a great girl believe in yourself, I know I do." Sincerely "Your future self."

I would tell myself to apply myself in high school by taking challengin courses. I would tell myself to apply for scholarships and grants so finances would not be a concern. I would also tell myself to not give up and not let anything stand in my way of receiving my degree. Do not let life get in the way.

As an adult returning to school, I would remind myself that as a senior in high school that I do not know everything, or have everything figured out. I would tell myself that I am better than I think, and that I should take more time to find a career path. I would tell myself to look into more scholarship and work study opportunities, because having unbelievable debt is not what I want. I would remind myself to take a deep breath and calm down. I would let myself know that my parents are right most of the time and only have my best interests at heart. I would try and learn to trust myself. I would remind myself that living with your parents isn't as bad as you think and that by staying home I could finish school faster, with a better GPA, and with a better school than I originally attended.

Knowing what I know now I would tell myself to make sure I am doing what I want to do and not living my life for others. If I always do what others want of me I will never be happy and less likely to succeed. I need to slow down and analyze every possibility for college and professions until I know which one best suites who I am and who I want to be. If those around me really love me then they will support whatever decision I make.

I would tell myself that it might not be a bad thing to hold off a few years before having a family. I would have been better able to care for my family had I gone on to college and gotten some education under my belt. It would have been easier to study without the demands I now have on my time. If I could go back, that's just what I would say: relax. You've got time to be married and have kids. Take a couple of years and grow up just a little bit more, then go ahead and jump into the whole grown-up thing. But, knowing myself as I do, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have listened. Experience seems to be my preferred method of learning things, sadly.

Knowing what I know now about college life, if I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell myself that there are plently of opportunities for a college education. If I decided not to go the traditional route of attending college (like staying on campus and moving away from home), there are other alternative's like on-line colleges. By enrolling in one of these colleges, I have the option of working a full time job and attending school while still living at home or living on my own. Sometimes high school graduates are not ready to leave home or even attend school right after high school. It is okay to start college later in life especially if you know what it is you are seeking. I would tell myself it is never too late to start college, just do it a little sooner than later so you can reap the benefits of having a college education and degree.

If I were to travel back in time, I would emphasize the importance of what seems to me at the time as useless education. I would explain my current status on education, financial, and family topics due to my past decisions. I would explain that fear of independence is only a henderance. I would tell myself to continue striving to receive a masters degree in mechanical and structure architect weither the field does obligate to move away from family. I would explain that I do not regret all of my decision. I would explain that there is only one decision I regret and that is the feeling of importance to have friends. I would tell myself that friends are not a factor in financial or family stability but instead a henderance. Last, I would tell myself to place happiness above anything else. Life is too short to work at a job that does not bring happiness, have a partner that does not bring happiness, and feel obligated to daily duties that do not bring happiness. Live life to the fullest.