Southeastern University Top Questions

The biggest thing about a school is the environment in which your students are going to be living in, as far as, the culture of the community. Students will be affected by the other students whether or not they want to. The parents need to evaluate their child's motive for going to school and what the main focus of the school is. Students need to looks at the academic rigor and possibly speak with students that go to that school to see if it?s everything the recruiters make it out to be. In order to make the most out of the college experience as an entering freshman it is important for the student to take initiative. Many students think other people should talk to them but many times they need to make the first move. Students also need to get organized right in the beginning so it?s not as stressful throughout the year. Overall, choose carefully then enjoy the ride :-)

Find the college that suits you -- the student. It is your decision and thats something to remember. Do your research. Think long term financing -- is this education going to cause unnecessary debt for me? If so think about two years of community college, get the basics out of the way, save thousands and then attend your choice university. Get involved! Activity not only looks great on resumes, but you meet friends for life . When you're apart of an organization you have the chance to broaden your horizens, make contacts and socialize at a higher level than just attending class. Talk to your professors! I also recommend fellowship with professors. Eating lunch with my teachers helped me to learn more than just the curriculum.Those connections are the same professionals that may write your recommendations once you graduate. Enjoy every minute of your college experience. Take it all in -- the stress, the anxiety, the long hours of study, the small dorms, and the drama -- because it comes and goes so fast and you really will want to make the most of one of the best experiences of your life.

Go to community college first if you are unsure of what you want to persue academically. Then choose a school that fits not only your future career goals, but your morals and values.

It is extremely important to to actually visit the college(s) in question. Talking to current students and conversing with professors over the phone are helpful, but the fullest picture of what the school is really like is seen by actually visting the school in person. Sitting in on classes helps to understand the learning environment; going to a play, performance, athletic game, or some activity of the school will help to get an inside look at the school beyond just classes and academics, because college is more than just homework and studies. Last, look around at the students and faculty on campus and see how they treat each other. Are professors acting in a way that makes themselves look "professor-ish"? Or do they "descend" to the level of the student and act real? Do students treat one another friendly and appropriately as peers? Or is there little interaction and connection between students? The asthetics and academia of the school are important, yet the people that you will spend the most time with are peers and teachers.

Take everything into consideration. Don't just choose a college because that is where you faimly went, or the academics are better there than anyother place, or becaue they have the best parties. Have a balance of everything you want. It is your college experience so don't settle. Find what you want and run after it.

For the Student: You really don't know anything about college until you have been in it for a number of years. So when it comes to choosing a school, make sure you choose wisely. Choose a school that will best fit your ACADEMIC needs; the social life will naturally happen. A lot of students choose schools pertaining to location or extra-curricular involvement, and in the long run, their academics suffer. Future students, you DO NOT know everything! So please don't act like it. For the Parents: It's a tough spot. You have to watch your kid walk away, but that is part of the process. Concerning the 'parenting' of a young man/woman as they travel through college, you have to let them make their own mistakes; that is part of maturing. But as a good Mom/Dad/Guardian, you must be there to support them when they fall on their face. You are much wiser than they are, so take charge. Look into their grades, and make sure they are getting everything they can academically out of college, and you everything out of your buck... Students and Parents, Don't give up!

I am going to address both parents and prospective college students. Parents, please be supportive of the choices and directions your child may want to take, and don't be overly involved in your child's decisions. Your best contribution to your child's future, for this particular avenue, is to give guidance and advice when needed or prompted. Prospective student, I urge you to be certain you want to attend college. If you are certain, then embrace your chosen direction with zeal and wisdom. Do not hesitate to ask questions, always listen and consider your parents' advice, and be sure to do as much research as possible to find the right college that will encourage and catapult you into a successful life of great character, integrity, and contribution.

Students should find the college that meets their needs; each college is different just as east person is different. Find a school that makes you feel comfortable and has plenty of diverse activities to enjoy. Extracurricular activities can be just as important as the academics. Even if the academics are really good at the college, a student who can find no way to unwind and connect will most likely reach their full potential. Trying new activities will help students de-stress, connect with people, and help students grow and diversify their life. Anyone interested in a college would benefit from visiting the dorm and arranging to stay for a day or two. An hour or two does not help interested people a true feel for the culture at the college. Finding a college may feel like finding someone to marry, but it isn't as complicated as that. A person should find a college that will help achieve their goals and where they can feel comfortable. Simple as that.

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Make sure you visit several colleges and see what they are really like not just the sugar coated tour they give.