Nicole
I would say to students that they should not let their parents pressure them into choosing a school which they are not completely excited about. Parents should serve as guide, but should ultimately leave the decision up to the student because from now on they are going to have to start making decisions on there own and parents need to trust their student to make wise choices. Students need to really evaluate what aspects of a college are most important to them before making a choice because there is no college that will fit them perfectly. Decided whether it is cost, academics, extracurricular activities, social life, distance from home, cost, religious affiliation, or any other factor. As far as maximizing the experience all I have to say is balance. If you are an academic don't forget to relax occasionally, and if you are a partyer don't slack off on your studies.
Johanthan
Parents: It's time to let them go. Sure, you may want to have a say in where they go, but they are adults now. It's time to let them call the shots. If you've done a good job, they'll be fine. Besides, don't you remember being in their shoes sometime ago? It's an exciting time where they get to learn how to handle responsibility and make the transition to adulthood. And the first part of this process is letting them choose where to go.
Students: Welcome to the best years of your life! But first, you need to chose where to spend those years. College is a crucial turning point in life: It's where life-long friends are made and memories are created. Oh yeah, it's also where you're likely to meet your future spouse. It can seem overwhelming to think about these things when choosing a school, but relax and enjoy the process. You're not going to be a failure in life if you dont' go to Harvard, so go with your instincts. Find a school that fits your style, and make the most of your college experience!
Travis
For the students: Be open minded and ready to participate. Don't be quick to judge and give people the benefit of the doubt frequently. Don't return home too often, allow yourself to be invested in the relationships at college; make friends, have fun. For the parents: be willing to give your student space and be patient. They will return to you eventually, even if it is only for food. I know that i appreciate my parents far more than I did in high school, and I look forward to returning home when I can. That being said, i don't get home very often, so home is a treat and a retreat, give your student space to make it that as well and life will be good.