Northern Michigan University Top Questions

Trust the kid's instinct. There certainly needs to be feasability with money and travel, but a student is better at choosing, and wiser than the parent thinks.

When looking for the right college, I highly recommend NOT sticking to schools that your friends are looking at or that you've heard are "cool" and the "party schools." I went outside the box and visited a college I hadn't even heard of until my senior year; it turned out to be the best fit in the world for me. You have to compare a lot of different things about schools, not just their price & if they have your major. Look at the area where the school is located, the activities available, their organizations and club teams, and you really need to visit the campus. Visiting a campus can totally change your opinion on a college, whether that's for the good or bad. As for making the most of your college experience, try to remember that it's a clean slate! Nobody (or at least almost nobody) will know who you are so you have the opportunity to make the impression that YOU want and you don't have to live with the high school labels anymore. Get involved in things you enjoy and don't be shy to meet new people, everyone else is scared too.

My advice for parents and students is to look for a college that fits who YOU are and where YOU want to go in life. Students, don't let anyone tell you which way you should go. Make up your own mind by doing a little research into different schools you are interested in so that you know what your getting into and so that you know which school is right for you. Where you decide to go could change your life and you'll probably be there for 4 or more years so make sure that the school you choose is what you truly want. Once you are there, enjoy it! It's going to be a bit scary at first but once you get settled it will be the best ride of your life and loads better than high school! Don't work so hard at academics that you forget about a social life and don't be afraid to try new things! Enjoy!

go on college visits, SHOP AROUND. Do try and make friends. Do room blind. Be open to meeting all different types of people -- who you choose to spend time with might surprise you.