Lakeland University Top Questions

I would tell my 18 year old self that as I mature, learn and experience more about life it is okay to change my educational and career path. Don't be discouraged when your plans change. Changing goals doesn't mean you've failed or wasted time. It represents growth and experience that has rewarded you with reassurance and confidence to follow your aspirations. Keeping an open mind to new possibilities will help you to realize your potential.

If I was able to go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell myself not to be afraid of what people thought of you. Everyone is nervous in the beginning and it is best to try and get out of your comfort zone, sooner than later. Caring about what people think about you just holds you back from being yourself. Don't be afraid to try new things, clubs or social groups. You will never know the friends you could make if you do not adventure out of your circle.

If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, knowing what I know now I would have a list of things to help prepare myself. I would tell myself that college is going to be some of the best years of your life; it’s exciting and life changing. College is a huge step and no one is ever really completely prepared for it. I would tell myself to do my best because grades mean so much more in college than they did in high school, and stay strong because you can make it through all of your classes no matter how hard they seem. You don’t really understand how important college is until you walk across the stage for graduation and knowing that you are moving on to bigger and better things for yourself in life. I know that the person I would go back to talk to would be an innocent senior just trying to complete some sort of degree after high school, but I will learn, and I did that college is worth it and I just need to keep pushing myself so I can accomplish my dreams.

If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, the first thing I would tell myself is to stop being so arrogant and obnoxious. Then, I would explain how college is not like high school because there is not as much drama and my class mates will not ridicule me for the fun of it. I would also tell myself to start looking for scholarships early because someday my college money would go towards my mother's medical bills and not to let the stress of my mom's cancer battle discourage me in my studies. I probably would not tell myself what career path to take though, because the best part of finding my calling was the sense of accomplishment that came with it. Besides, knowing me, at that age I would have purposely tried to take a different career path just to prove myself wrong. *Sigh* Kids these days.

If I could go back to my first year of college, I would tell myself not to buy books from the school because they are too expensive. I should have bought my books online to save over 100 dollars becasue I bough books from the campus shop. I would also tell myself to get a lower meal plan to save money becasue the school recommends a very expencive and large meal plan for freshman. I would tell myself to eat less and start using the gym and excerize rooms to stop myself from gaining the freshman 15. I would buy a new dorm refriegerator in order to have more fresh fruits and vegtables in my room.

I would tell myself to go out and talk to people. I need to get out of my comfort zone more often because it will help talking to other people. It helps me try new things and meet many amazing people.

I would tell my younger self that college means commitment, dedication ,self sacrifice , and that one must prepare themselves now to face the challenges it will bring. For example, going to college takes commitment because you will be spending the next 4 years of your life in a quest for a degree to whatever career path you decide to take. It may seem like forever but stick with it and don't give up no matter how difficult the road ahead may seem. Don't settle to fail but expect to succeed. Remember that education is a priceless gift. It also takes dedication because there are so many things in life that can distract you and make you lose your focus as to whats important and in achieving your ultimate goal. Stay focused and keep your eyes on the prize. Just stick with your classes and get the best grades you can get. Keep improving yourself ,in the classroom and as an individual. Lastly, it takes self sacrfice because there will be many things you will have to sacrifice to pursue your goal such as time, sleep, or even recreation. However, remember, that your struggle is not in vain.

This is your chance to pursue your dreams. Work hard, but also take time to relax. The next four years will go by quickly, so take time to soak in the moments. Take deep breaths, look around and make as many friends as you can. This is a huge step in the direction of your future; step forward boldly!

If I were able to give myself advice I would consistently remind myself to work hard. In high school I had the tendency to only give fifty percent when it came to my work because initially I was not motivated to go to college. Now, that I am a college student I will tell myself to, not only give a hundred and ten percent, but learn to enjoy what it is that I am learning and doing. Also, I will tell myself to become my own "cheerleader". No one is going to give me more support than myself. In high school I should have not been dependent upon others for support regarding whatever goals I were to attain. Now, in college I know that I have to depend upon myself for motivation and support. Therefore, looking back, I would have told myself as a high school senior, to work hard, focus,be self-motivated, and give my full potential toward my work and my goals.

If I could go back and talk to my high school senior self, the best advice I could give would be not to worry so much about choosing a major right away. I think many students feel they have to be aiming toward a specific expertise, but there are options of just taking general studies until we, as students, can figure it all out. I have switched majors many times and have loved every experience and I am now finally on the path that I can see myself doing everyday forever. I would tell my younger self that there are other financial options out there and there is help so not to put a hold on going to school because for awhile that seemed to be what was holding me back. Also, go in and talk to an advisor. You don't have to do it alone. They are extremely helpful and want what's best for you too.