George Washington University Top Questions

Scenario: While sharing a pizza with her father, Samantha mentions that she has made an appointment with her guidance counselor to discuss her college options. Samantha's father asks, "Have you considered what you want to get out of college?" As father and daughter brainstorm, they discover that Samantha wants to study journalism. She also wants to meet friends that share her interests in photography. A successful college experience will foster both academic and personal growth. To find the right college, the student and parent should work together to determine the student's goals. Once the student's academic and personal goals are clear, the student-parent team can begin searching for colleges that will cater to the achievement of these goals. Samantha has just realized two important goals: she wants to major in journalism and socialize with other photographers. She can now approach the college search armed with these two aspirations. She should find colleges that offer a journalism program and a photography club. By defining her goals first, Samantha is better-equipped to begin searching for the right school: one that will have the resources available to help Samantha make the most of her college experience.

I believe the experience of college is about finding one's true self. I would tell students not to be afraid of trying new things. For example, if you are from a small-town, maybe a college in the city or a metro-area would be excellent for you to explore a different environment. Becoming entrenched within a different type of society may really appeal to you. It is also not necessary to know what you want to major in the day you start your classes. Explore your options! It will change you for the better and will give you a perspective that was probably not available in high school. I would tell parents to not be afraid of letting go. Although it may seem difficult, this is the time where your child will learn independence, as well as transform into an adult. Allow him/her to pursue their passions, as it is necessary in shaping who they will become. I found my passion through my courses and discussing different career opportunities with my professors. Students who become engaged with both social and academic aspects of college tend to have the most satisfying experience.

I would tell students that you need to focus on the future and what you are trying to achieve in school. College is not only about socializing and having fun, but it is about the academics too, how hard you work in college, will pay off ten-fold, when you graduate in four years, you will see awesome results, if you can always strive to do your best in your classes and career endevours. Sometimes take the time to instead of going to that party or hanging out on a Thursday night, do a little bit of your readings a head of time, immerse yourself in your studies, so you can receive the most for your money and time spent on and in college!

The most important thing to remember about making the most of your college experience is that it's not where you go to school but what you make of it. No matter what school you go to, you must work hard and that will always bring you out on top. Don't take your opportunity for granted. Also, play for a sports team. Not only is it a good way to make friends, but it is good for your body and mind. Not a sports person? Find some activity to involve yourself in -- be social. Balance is key -- you have to juggle your social life and academics. In terms of finding a good fit for a school -- go interact with students and find out what they really think about the school. Don't hesitate to ask the tough questions. Sit in on classes and spend a night in the dorms to make sure it's where you belong. Also, do your homework. Research what programs and majors the school has to offer and if those are what you're looking for. Look at lots of schools -- having plenty of options is good when it comes to choosing a school.

Parents: let the students do the work. It's fine to get involved in the college search, but by the time your child is searching for colleges, he or she should be prepared to do the research alone. Give friendly advice, but do not force your child to go to the college where you had, "the most amazing experience of your life," because that experience will be different for everyone. And therein lies the beauty of college: everyone is unique, and everyone has the ability to make the most or least of their college experience. With that said, students: there is no perfect college for you. Find a campus environment you feel comfortable in, and meet as many people as possible before latching onto your best friends. College is what you make of it, so study hard but don't forget to socialize too. Get involved as much as possible: you'll meet more friends and maybe even form a new study group. And if you're shy because you haven't tried something before, now's your chance! Try everything that interests you; it may just be the last time in your life you'll have so many opportunities.

You will know the school is right for you if you have butterflies in your stomach when opening the acceptance letter. Once at school, don't hold yourself back. Throw yourself into as many activities and situations as possible and keep in touch with all the people you will meet.

Visit every type of college out there. From small to big, liberal arts schools, state schools, city schools, and even schools in the middle of nowhere. The student needs to find that school that just feels right. You will know once you are on the campus and can picture yourself there that it is the one. It's almost like finding a soulmate in a way. Once you find the school, do not hesitate to get involved. It is really the best way to meet people and further explore your interests. Everyone is on a level playing field Freshman year, so take in every experience and opporunity that comes your way. And this time, start fresh and be yourself, you don't have to keep up any image from high school. Just enjoy everyday because it flies by.

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Figure out what you love to do and what your interests are. Don't be afraid to go somewhere far from home, because it's important to use that space to mature and figure yourself out. Visit a bunch of schools, and don't be afraid of the price tag because financial aid and scholarships are out there.

Let your students make there own decisions (within financial reason) with your wise imput. Give them the freedom to grow and develop on their own - the time has come for your children to choose their own path. Remember they will always love and respect you, so let them go out into the world with your blessing to make their own way.