Steven
As a brother of two others, one of them being my sister who is currently that senior in high school I have gone through this question many times before. The main point I would focus on is you, many people rely on others opinions and thoughts of schools to impact their own decision even saying no to a school purely because their friends didnt think highly enough of it. Each school is never going to be perfect, youre expectations of what college should be based upon media is inflated to be completely honest. College is tough, youre on your own, and your comforts are diminishing but its worth it. You grow so much from the process and just because you dont find exactly what youre looking for in greek life or sports or etc. you can still have an amazing time at any school if you open yourself up to new possibilites. Explore and be flexible to the world around you.
Kelsey
I would say not to worry so much. Before going into college I remeber looking up graduation rates, percent of student that get a job after graduation and all of the other statistics I could find online. I would tell myself to instead of worrying so much on my grade, worry about learning the material and having fun. Throughout college I have learned college is really all about getting a firm grasp on the material while also getting out and experiencing everything the campus has to offer and making connections that will last a lifetime.
Clare
I would say if it is okay to go to community college. You don't have to go to a four-year Univeristy, but if you choose to go to a four-year University go to one that is smaller and closer to home. Find a community you love and dont try to be somone you aren't. You liked yourself in high school and you were happy. Remeber to stay happy and finish college at a pace that is comfortable to you. Dedicate yourslef to academics, but dont forget that excersise is an important part of your life. Be confident that you can do anything you want and dont limit yourslef. Also, dont stress so much about money. Just foucs on doing stuff you love. People keep telling you to go out of your comfort zone, but that doesnt mean dont you need to do stuff you hate over things you love. Dont shape your life around other people. Dont worry so much about what everyone else is doing and just focus on yourslef. If keep yourslef happy and healthy everyone around you will be happier and healthier for it. Be optomistic. Don't listen to the pessemists.
Richard
If paying for college is difficult and you are not sure what you want to study, do not go to a large university. Instead, save money by going to a community college and doing a lot of research in your spare time. You will have about two years to figure out what your post high school career will be.
When and if you do decide to go to college, make sure it's a college that best suits you. Don't worry too much about the big names but visit the campuses and get a feel for the lifestyle.
After deciding on a campus, become involved. Fraternities are good for connections but they are costly and too much partying can deter you from graduating. I would recommend clubs related to your major. If you chose not to join a club or fraternity, be sociable at least. Do not become a fly on the wall. Go out and make friends related to your major. You will regret not making those connections if you have career trouble.
Grace
I was very nervous about starting college. I was not confident in my ability to make the transition from high school to college. Leaving my hometown, my friends, and my family to go and be in a new environment with new people was scary. If I could go back in time to right before I left for my 1st year at Cal Poly SLO I would let myself know that I am stronger than I think. I would also tell myself that everyone is affraid of going off to college and you are not alone and that you will find people who will become your best friends during this transition period.
Gennesee
If I could go back in time and be able to give my high school senior self some advice it would be to not procastinate as i did as a senior, especially in the spring semester. I thought that because I had already been accepted to the university I wished to attend that I was pretty much done with school, and that way of thinking caused stress for me later as I was rushing to complete assignments that I had procrastinated. I would also try to finish completing more scholarships as my university had a lot more fees than I had originally anticipated.
Nick
I would tell myself that you must never assume that you're going to receive something. I would tell myself to apply for the full tuition scholarships because once you're a college student, there are rarely any full tuition scholarships. Nothing in life is guaranteed, so I would give myself this advice.
Lindsay
If there was one thing that I could say to myself as a senior in high school regarding college, it would be this: you CAN do it. I grew up in a very poor household, and I never though college was an option for me. Though I was intelligent and always did well in school, I never even considered going to college. Part of the reason for this was because no one told me that I could. I graduated from a continuation high school. When I transferred from the main high school to the continutation high school, any encouragement regarding college literally disappeared. None of the adults in my life, whether it was my parent, teachers, or counselors, ever talked about my option with me. My only goal was to graduate high school.
I look back, and I wish I could shake my 17 year old self and say, "You are capable!!" I went back to school when I was 23. As a result of this, I transferred into the university at 25. While I gained a lot of life experience in this time, I also lost a lot of opportuinities. Now I tell myself that I CAN everyday.
Tiffany
Be the absolute best you can be. In one year when you enter college, you'll realize how blatantly your past defines you. High School is NOT the time for you to "make mistakes because you're only young once". It is the time for you to wonder, discover, and be inspired as much as possible. College will drain the youth and imagination from you. Maturity and reality will take their place instead. Here, your eyes will be open to a cut-throat world. A year from now, your parents will no longer be able to support you. A year from now, you will be working a 50 hour work week in order to pay for the next school year. A year from now, you will wonder why you are working so damn hard to be somewhere you're not even sure you want to be. "Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true." -Leo Jozef Suenens. One of your biggest regrets will be that you never had a dream. You're only young once, don't regret it.
Alexander
The freedoms of a newly attained adulthood seem endless, and it is very hard to not take advantage of those freedoms when they are first offered. These freedoms include no immediate consequances for missing class, or abusing alcohol, so one must learn to be self disciplined, and responsible in order to succeed. Without the coddling of high school educators, and the relentless nagging of parents to complete assignments, my grades fell to the wayside. Because of this, my advice for myself as a graduating senior would simply be, "GO TO CLASS!". I spent many sleepless nights beyond stressed, and praying for teachers lenience , because too may days before were spent with friends ignoring my responsibilities. As a graduationg senior you are becoming an adult, and waiting a year before acting like one can really implicate ones life goals and aspirations. You and your parents are spending a large sum of money in order to prepare you for a world where it is hard excel without a proper education, and getting drunk with ones friends is not worth missing out on the opportunity that is available when one acheives their goal of higher education.