Bentley University Top Questions

John, you need to get your act together. College is no joke. You have to get yourself on a schedule early in the year or your grade will slowly drop. The way you will be able to make sure you will do well is ask questions and go to your professors office hours they want to help you. I know you are going to want to socialize and make friends. But, there is one thing that goes before that. That my friend is education, and all of that will come in time. Just put the effort and do not slack off. If you can do all of these things then you will surely succeed in college. Good luck my friend.

Be true to yourself. Even though you're still still figuring out who you are, you're not going to turn out to be completely different from who you are now. Don't think too much. I shouldn't say that because I still think too much, haha.

If I was given the opportunity to travel back in time and talk to myself as a highschool senior with the knowlegde I now know about the college life and the transition the advise I would give myself would consists of a number of different things. To start off, a piece of advice I wish someone told me would be to not underestimate yourself coming in. instead make sure your confidence is above and beyond the competion. instead of siting back and waiting for something to happen, go and make it happen yourself! make the change you want to see, make the group that you wish to be a part of, become the leader that you have always dreamt of seeing in the mirror everyday in the future. instead of waiting for time to come and pass by, get up and be productive and push your self to see your true potential and when you feel like you cant go any further find the correct support system whether it be close friends or intelliegent staff and alumini always go and ask for advice from others if you are stuck. never sit and wait for things to come go get it!

Dont be afraid of anything or anybody, Live every once in a while, Be condfident in yourself and your abilities, Procrastination is the enemy and the root of all evil, Get rid of your highschool girlfriend(Thats a story that doesn't end well), Learn how to listen and retain, Be open to different experiences this world is too beautiful to view it from a box despite how dangerous it might seem, Love everyone because hate is poison, Call your parents because they love you more than you'll ever understand. Heck i dont even understand today, Messing up in life is normal so make a lot of mistakes, Take everyones advice in stride but at the end of the day do what you feel is right, I know i said this in the beginning but DONT BE AFRAID OF ANYTHING OR ANYONE i cant stress it enough, Talk to the cute girl downstairs(when you move in) cause she actually likes you, Turn in every assignment ontime, Dont get into anything pertaining but not limited to AMWAY, If music is your passion LIVE IT, And when you feel alone in this big world know that I LOVE YOU MAN

Go to a school with good finacial aid.

Brave New World Beyond the horizon there is hope, Beyond hope there is perseverance and beyond that lye's success. I would venture to say that the experience of college is a prestigious one. Also that many who walk its granite halls wont make it to boast JR year, all because of their lack of prioritization among college occurrences. Party's, alcohol and non-academic temptations, while these things are tolerable in minor quantities; without discipline to satisfy a balanced college life, class, grades etc will begin to suffer indefinitely. In conclusion in making my way back in time to the year 2008. The best advice i could give the younger version of my self would be to eliminate the possibility of distractions. Simply,In the long run your priorities are much more important when choosing life decisions. Stick with what will give you long term satisfaction and accomplishments then something that entertains quick desires.

Dear High School Kyle, I know what you did last summer...only because I'm you from the future! Weird, I know, but just roll with it. So, here we go; advice about freshman year. If I were you (oh wait, I am haha), I would try to be more outgoing! Let loose and just try to make friends! Be yourself, but don't be afraid to try new things. Hint: during your freshman year you found out that you are great at making acquaintances, but maybe not so great at making close friendships. I know you are afraid to trust people, but just do it. You are a kind, caring, unique individual who deserves to have amazing friends who care about you. Not to mention, you are hilarious and people want to see that side of you! Good luck my dear! Love, College Kyle

As a current college student, if I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would advise myself to participate in the activities that are most important to me and do them well. I feel as though throughout high school, I always wanted to be a part of everything and had too much on my plate. Although I had a full time job, an internship, AP classes, and responsibilities to uphold, I often found myself wanting to volunteer and lead as many activities as I could in school which was a habit I unknowingly created that I continued on in college. If I were to go back in time, I would take this advice and create a better system for myself to only take on what is important to me and would aid me in becoming a more well-rounded person. In this way, I would have had the system better prepared for my first year at college where I found myself struggling to do it all.

If I were able to go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior I would advise myself to stay closer to home and participate in Archbishop Mitty High School's immersion programs. Now that I look back on it, I truly miss home. During my first week at Bentley University, I would cry after speaking to my family members because we were so distant from each other and this was my first time leaving home. Archbishop Mitty has a wide spectrum of immersion programs, and I regret not signing up for one of them as they would have provided an opportunity to learn from other people. Many times we are only concerned about our personal wellbeing; we do not realize there are other people who are struggling. We need to take time out of our lives and pay some attention to those who are struggling. Finally, the Chinese instrumental solo concert I hosted on April 3, 2011 was one of the most rewarding times of my life. I was able to spread my talent of knowing 12 instruments with friends and family. For that I am grateful to my family for encouraging me.

If I could go back in time and talk to myself as a high school senior, I would tell myself not to worry or overthink the college experience. When listening to others talk about their college life, still keep an open mind because someone may have a completely different experience in college than you will. I would tell myself not to worry about making friends. You will have plenty of opportunities to go out and meet a bunch of new people which will eventually turn into great friendships. I would tell myself it is important to join clubs and stay active in the college community because it will be your new home for the next four years and friends are what keep your college experiences fun. Not seeing family everyday was a hard transition for me, so I would tell myself to remember to e-mail and call home frequently so you don’t feel like you’re alone. You always have family to lean on when times get rough. I’d also remind myself to focus on my studies because this education is your future. Overall, college is a time to find yourself and embrace all your lovable qualities.